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Becoming my father's conservator

Last post 08-18-2009 3:03 PM by Jenny Reeves. 1 replies.
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  • 08-12-2009 3:09 PM

    Becoming my father's conservator

    I would like some info on becoming my dad's conservator as well as taking care of him on a full time basis in his home. I currently live w/him in his home. My father has expressed to me his wish is that I become his conservator as he does not get along w/his conservator and the 24 /hr.caregiver company who his conservator hired.The expense is enormous for the care they provide appx. 1300.00 /wk.and do basically nothing but watch TV. computer or on the phone 24/7. I have been attending to just about all my dad's needs in his daily care ( ie.) cooking, doctor appointments, cleaning his home, lawn chores, companionship, etc.My dad is in a wheelchair because of a hip problem and his main desire is to walk again. He is 89 yrs. old and has been diagnosed w/ borderline dementia,  however you would not know it if you talk to him, he is very capable of of maintaining a good conversation.His conservator does not listen to his requests and is in control of all his finances, I'm having a hard time in getting money to purchase the necessary clothes from him or a harness belt and orthopedic shoes he needs. My dad has lost 1 home already because of the costs of care and does not wish to lose the house he owns now ,that he built, as his conservator has taken a reverse mortgage on recently and these unnessesary costs of care are hurting him financially.Please advise

  • 08-18-2009 3:03 PM In reply to

    Re: Becoming my father's conservator

    Hello Peter,

    I'm sorry for the situation you are in.  You need to consult with an Elderlaw Attorney.  I'm not sure what state you are located in but you can find an Elderlaw Attorney through this website: www.naela.org.

    Good luck to you,

    Jenny Reeves

    Eldercare Advisor

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