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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="http://elder-care-community.aplaceformom.com/utility/FeedStylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>Keeping yourself Healthy</title><link>http://elder-care-community.aplaceformom.com/forums/30.aspx</link><description>Discussions, tips and ideas about how to keep yourself healthy while being a caregiver.</description><dc:language>en</dc:language><generator>CommunityServer 2007.1 SP2 (Build: 31113.47)</generator><item><title>Re: Caregiver Bill of Rights</title><link>http://elder-care-community.aplaceformom.com/forums/thread/729.aspx</link><pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 00:30:40 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">e93e0954-abdc-4efb-9129-54a471332da2:729</guid><dc:creator>lauraoneil</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://elder-care-community.aplaceformom.com/forums/thread/729.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://elder-care-community.aplaceformom.com/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=30&amp;PostID=729</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;p&gt;Thanks for this reminder Linda,&amp;nbsp; This is something I will share will families often. &lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: Caregiver Bill of Rights</title><link>http://elder-care-community.aplaceformom.com/forums/thread/448.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 28 Jan 2008 13:32:04 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">e93e0954-abdc-4efb-9129-54a471332da2:448</guid><dc:creator>Connie Lennstrom</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://elder-care-community.aplaceformom.com/forums/thread/448.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://elder-care-community.aplaceformom.com/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=30&amp;PostID=448</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;p&gt;Linda, this is something I will share with my siblings as we, especially my older sis who lives nearby&amp;nbsp;are caring for our elderly mother right now.&amp;nbsp; Thanks!&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Caregiver Bill of Rights</title><link>http://elder-care-community.aplaceformom.com/forums/thread/442.aspx</link><pubDate>Fri, 25 Jan 2008 19:38:46 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">e93e0954-abdc-4efb-9129-54a471332da2:442</guid><dc:creator>Linda Temple</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://elder-care-community.aplaceformom.com/forums/thread/442.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://elder-care-community.aplaceformom.com/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=30&amp;PostID=442</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;p&gt;I know many&amp;nbsp;of you have probably seen this before. I think it is good as a caregiver to review from time to time, as being the caregiver can be such a challenge at times.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size="5"&gt;
&lt;p align="center"&gt;CAREGIVER BILL OF &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p align="center"&gt;RIGHTS &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;
&lt;p align="left"&gt;I have the right… &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font face="Times New Roman,Times New Roman" size="4"&gt;to take care of myself. This is not an act of selfishness. It will give me the capability of taking better care of my relative. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;
&lt;p align="left"&gt;I have the right… &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font face="Times New Roman,Times New Roman" size="4"&gt;to seek help from others even though my relatives may object. I recognize the limits of my own endurance and strength. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;
&lt;p align="left"&gt;I have the right… &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font face="Times New Roman,Times New Roman" size="4"&gt;to maintain facets of my own life that do not include the person I care for, just as I would if he or she were healthy. I know that I do everything that I reasonably can for this person, and I have the right to do some things just for myself. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;
&lt;p align="left"&gt;I have the right… &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font face="Times New Roman,Times New Roman" size="4"&gt;to get angry, be depressed, and express other difficult feelings occasionally. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;
&lt;p align="left"&gt;I have the right… &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font face="Times New Roman,Times New Roman" size="4"&gt;to reject any attempts by my relative (either conscious or unconscious) to manipulate me through guilt and/or depression. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;
&lt;p align="left"&gt;I have the right… &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font face="Times New Roman,Times New Roman" size="4"&gt;to receive consideration, affection, forgiveness, and acceptance from my loved one for what I do, for as long as I offer these qualities in return. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;
&lt;p align="left"&gt;I have the right… &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font face="Times New Roman,Times New Roman" size="4"&gt;to take pride in what I am accomplishing and to applaud the courage it has sometimes taken to meet the needs of my relative. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;
&lt;p align="left"&gt;I have the right… &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font face="Times New Roman,Times New Roman" size="4"&gt;to protect my individuality and my right to make a life for myself that will sustain me in the time when my relative no longer needs my full-time help. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;
&lt;p align="left"&gt;I have the right… &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font face="Times New Roman,Times New Roman" size="4"&gt;to expect and demand that as new strides are made in finding resources to aid physically and mentally impaired persons in our country, similar strides will be made towards aiding and supporting caregivers. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;
&lt;p&gt;AUTHOR UNKNOWN &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This article&amp;nbsp;is also found&amp;nbsp;at &lt;a class="" title="Caregiver Support" href="http://www.aplaceformom.com/senior-care-resources/articles/caregiver-support/"&gt;Caregiver Support&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>